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What to talk about on your first date: 99 interesting subjects to talk about

Many people are wondering what they should talk about on their first date, ranging from friends to work colleagues. Read these conversation starters that are sure to break the ice.

Our best dating advices

Good advice for those looking for ways to improve conversation with their date. Dating is important for many people, whether they are adults or teenagers. It can be an awkward situation when you do not know what to talk about on the first date. With that being said, it is usually best to avoid having deep conversations since it may put pressure on your partner and make them not want to go on another date. This could end up hurting your chances of getting a second date because you don’t know how to talk to somebody you like. You want to keep the conversation light and fun but interesting enough for them to find you worth keeping around and going out with again.

How to ask questions when on a date

When asking questions, only ask open-ended questions that require more than a yes or no answer. An example of an open ended question would be “How did you end up here?” In order to help get the conversation started, find a common interest.

Share something about yourself

In order to get more comfortable with each other, share personal details about yourself. It’s okay if things like past relationships and family members come up, as it shows the person you are talking to that you trust them.

99 interesting subjects to talk about on your first date

If you’ve been on one date and looking to go on another soon, these 10 topics will help ease the conversation.

  1. How your day went
  2. How was your week?
  3. What made you want to come here today?
  4. What’s your favorite book?
  5. How many siblings do you have?
  6. What is one of your biggest dreams?
  7. Do you like your family?
  8. What have you been up to lately?
  9. Where did you grow up?
  10. Celebrity or famous people they like and why?
  11. Pets they have owned?
  12. The best or worst date they’ve been on and why?
  13. A funny story from childhood?
  14. Where their favorite place to go is, and why?
  15. An embarrassing moment in the past?
  16. The scariest moment in their life?
  17. What do they consider to be the most important part of a relationship?
  18. A moment that changed their life?
  19. What do they want out of life?
  20. Their favorite drink or dessert?
  21. The one thing that bugs them most about people, and why?
  22. What is the first thing you notice when you meet someone?
  23. An influential person in their life and why?
  24. When was a time someone stood up for them?
  25. Their favorite holiday and why?
  26. What is their favorite type of music and why?
  27. The most interesting place they’ve traveled to and why?
  28. Where was your first kiss?
  29. A book they read recently and what it was about?
  30. When is your birthday, month, and day?   
  31. Something you love to do and why?
  32. What their favorite emoji is and why?
  33. Their favorite memory from childhood?
  34. The most embarrassing moment in their life? (if you share one first)
  35. A talent that people don’t know about them, and what it is?
  36. Their favorite movie and why?
  37. Who was their first crush? When did they realize they had feelings for them?
  38. The most interesting place they’ve traveled, and why?
  39. What is their guilty pleasure TV show or movie?
  40. An event in history that interests them, and why?
  41. Two celebrities you’d choose to be and why?
  42. Who was their childhood hero? Why?
  43. What do they like to do in their free time, and what is it that they love about it?
  44. The moment they realized life meant something more than simply existing?
  45. Something we may not know about them, and what it is?
  46. When was the last time they had an epiphany? What was it, and what made them realize it?
  47. Their favorite drink or dessert?
  48. What is their dream job? And why do they want to have that as a career?
  49. Two influential people in their life, who are they, and what makes them influential?
  50. The first thing you notice when you meet someone, and why?
  51. Their biggest pet peeve, and what drives them completely insane?
  52. What is one thing they can’t live without?
  53. The scariest moment in their life, and how did they handle it?
  54. What they consider to be the most important part of a relationship, and why?
  55. Their favorite book, and why?
  56. Where was their first kiss? How old were they? What do they remember most about their experience with it?
  57. Something you love to do and why?
  58. A funny story from childhood or adolescence that we may not know about them?
  59. What is their favorite holiday and why?
  60. An embarrassing moment in the past and how they dealt with it?
  61. When was a time someone stood up for them?
  62. Where was their first job and what do they remember most about it?
  63. The best or worst date they’ve been on and why. How did they meet their date?
  64. What is their favorite emoji and why?
  65. Their dream vacation?
  66. Their celebrity crush and why?
  67. Something they’re most passionate about?
  68. Their biggest fear and how do they face it?
  69. How many siblings do they have? What are their names?
  70. What is a common interest that you share with someone else in your family, and what makes it a special memory for you both?
  71. Who was their childhood hero? Why?
  72. What is one thing they can’t live without?
  73. What do they like to do in their free time, and what is it that they love about it?
  74. The scariest moment in their life, and how did they handle it.
  75. What is their favorite emoji and why?
  76. Who was their first crush? When did they realize they had feelings for them?
  77. The most important part of a relationship, and why?
  78. Something you wouldn’t know about them, and what it is?
  79. When was a time they stood up for themselves? What happened and why did they feel the need to defend themselves?
  80. An event in history that interests them, and why?
  81. Their favorite drink or dessert?
  82. The moment they realized life meant something more than simply existing?
  83. Something we may not know about them, and what it is?
  84. When was the last time they had an epiphany? What was it, and what made them realize it?
  85. Their favorite book, and why?
  86. How old were they when they had their first kiss? Where did it happen? Who was the person that kissed them and what do they remember most about it?
  87. What is one thing they can’t live without?
  88. Their biggest pet peeve, and what drives them completely insane?
  89. Where was their first job and what do they remember most about it?
  90. Something you love to do and why.
  91. The best or worst date they’ve been on and why. How did they meet their date?
  92. What do they consider to be the most important part of a relationship, and why?
  93. What is something that you’ve always wanted to do but haven’t, and why?
  94. The celebrity crush they have now and why?
  95. A funny story from their childhood or adolescence that we may not know about them?
  96. What is something that they love to do and why?
  97. Their biggest fear and how do they face it?
  98. Where was their first vacation and where do they plan to go on their dream vacation?
  99. What is something that we may not know about them, and what is it?

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